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by Mark Anthony Dyson

References Must Speak to Your Current Skills

References Must Speak to Your Current Skills

Your job search should be a lifestyle. But, unfortunately, there are too many components to ignore in 2021 and beyond.

I bet your references and mentors are perpetually in motion.

References can be that landmine if you didn’t vet them, what they will speak to, and share the value you are adding to the inquiring company. Employers want to be assured you can solve their problem, and your reference needs to speak to how you effectively solved past ones.

Some of your references are mentors who will have progressed in their careers in similar ways you would like to. But I bet you call them to mentor, and you’re unaware of how they successfully navigate their career.

You can learn from them, so it’s a good idea to keep them engaged. But if it’s been more than 10 years since they worked with you, find five to seven references you’ve worked with more recently who can also vouch for you.

Simply, references if not vetted or relevant to the problem you’ll solve for the employer is hazardous to your job search.

Think about it:

How many of your references have worked with you in the last 5 years? The last 10 years?

Think of the technology, what you’ve learned, and the life changes in the last two years?

I’ll let that simmer with you. It’s time to get new references if you are convincing employers and recruiters of your value. Your references need to match your relevance no matter your age.

Remove the landmines

On #JobSeekerNation this past week, we talked about landmines in your job search and during the interview process. You can see the entire show here.

Here are other landmines that can entrap you and make your job search more difficult:

Background checks

I tell a story about a client who once lied to her potential employer. But, first, let’s say that a “white lie” is still a lie if it misrepresents you and your integrity.

Afraid of Potential Consequences of Being Fired

The most successful CEO has been let go due to performance. It’s not because they didn’t work hard. I offer some suggestions here that should help you overcome the antiquated narrative about being fired.

Sharing accomplishments that help your potential employer

What sells you sharing expected results and strategies used to get the job done. The more you offer showing how thoughtful you are, increasing the chances of continued conversations. Using words like “great” or “excellent” matters less if the stories you share demonstrate elements an employer needs.

Being unteachable and unflexible

Nobody wants to hire someone who stays stuck in their own mud. But, that’s how a good leader or manager will see someone who doesn’t absorb new information and doesn’t customize a current strategy to fit the situation.

You don’t listen

Most people try to listen for words that seem wrong. You have to listen for what people don’t say because there’s much intel to gather from silence or omission. You can actually listen for the intent of an omission through your silence and being present in the moment.

There are opportunities left on the table because job candidates are not as thoughtful and reflective of what an employer says. And it often shows through the lack of engagement and discernment from the application process to the reference checks. It is possible to defuse the mines before they go off by investing time into what the employer wants and needs.

About Mark Anthony Dyson

I am the "The Voice of Job Seekers!" I offer compassionate career and job search advice as I hack and re-imagine the job search process. You need to be "the prescription to an employer's job description." You must be solution-oriented and work in positions in companies where you are the remedy. Your job search must be a lifestyle, and your career must be in front of you constantly. You can no longer shed your aspirations at the change seasons. There are strengths you have that need constant use and development. Be sure you sign up to download my E-Book, "421 Modern Job Search Tips 2021!" You can find my career advice and work in media outlets such as Forbes, Inc., Fast Company, Harvard Business Review, Glassdoor, and many other outlets.

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Lost Your Job? Bill Withers Said, Survive By Using Your Left Hand

Lost Your Job? Bill Withers Said, Survive By Using Your Left Hand

Most of us favor our jobs over our livelihoods. We favor it as much as we do our right-hand. And it’s human nature, we use our left-hand only when our right-hand is rendered or declared useless. Similarly, we do the same if when our jobs lay us off, or we become useless, and then we consider new skills. Now, we’re going to make this left-hand useful because the right-hand has worth, but the job market says it’s useless.

Years ago, teachers used to make children who were left hand use their right hand. There have been studies that have documented the plight of left-handed people, and especially children.  Left-handed people are not cursed, but there are fewer than right-handed people.

We’re so used to depending on the right hand

In many ways, left-handed people were practically hazed and treated indifferently. As a society, we are right-handed and refer to the right-hand as the stronger hand.

Losing a job under any circumstance is the same as losing your right-hand (or left). For many, self-worth came from the job as did the monetary, relationship, and some emotional needs. The right-hand was the primary tool for everything, just like the job.

The left-hand is the default hand. The left rides shot-gun to support the right. Until the job was gone, the left-hand had a limited role. When the time came to learn how to write left-handed, there were no other choices.

I wrote on LinkedIn and Facebook recently,

In offer some job search advice, I decided to include some Bill Withers musings: Bill’s wife Marcie had an MBA, Bill cleaned toilets while in the Navy. His first major recording was published at 33 years old (that’s 50 in today’s pop music scene). This breaks all the rules for career change today. And breaks all of the dating advice about women who shouldn’t date “down.”

Although we live in a right-handed world, to write left-handed is not natural or advised for most of us. Many of us will learn to write left-handed when this #COVID19 crises is over. You will have use or learn skills you don’t know now. You’ll be asked to write left-handed and you won’t.

You’ll realize that you should have learned years ago. Proud you’re old school? You’ll need to dismantle your resistance to write left-handed. Get ready to write left-handed. This is “Job Search 3.0!” Listen to the word of this song about a soldier who lost his right hand in battle. He has someone write a letter home to tell his family what happened to him.

Many will be forced to use the left-hand.

Remote working might be your left-hand. Communication could be your lefty.

Many have already given up or settle for whatever happens. The literal use of the left have similarities, to job loss and learning the other possibilities, skills, and purpose. Your responses may fit the ones below, trying to write left-handed:

    • I can’t write left-handed at all. People are not learning new skills until a crisis. They hope someone saves them. Prepare your career long before losing your job, and before the writing is on the wall.
    • I can’t understand my writing at all. You get a few points for trying, but you haven’t used other job skills much at all. It takes patience, but you must keep trying to enhance work skills. No one says that using another talent or learning another profession would be easy.
    • This is so strenuous. You neglected your left hand for most of your life unless you became injured. If you ignored a specific skill set because someone else you didn’t need it, you no one else to blame. Take charge of your career.
    • I barely wrote my name, but can’t write anything else. Although it is better than most, you don’t stand out. Barely “knowing” or “barely can do” is a weak core competency.
    • This hand tires so quickly. When you learn something new, it is more challenging and trying. It takes up more brain space and muscle activation because it’s unique. Don’t think that it is just about getting one degree, certificate, or reward.

Learning is a continual process that will enable longevity. Learn for life, and train to use the left and right equally. Are you training, learning, and developing so that your left is as useful as your right? If not, what is holding you back?

About Mark Anthony Dyson

I am the "The Voice of Job Seekers!" I offer compassionate career and job search advice as I hack and re-imagine the job search process. You need to be "the prescription to an employer's job description." You must be solution-oriented and work in positions in companies where you are the remedy. Your job search must be a lifestyle, and your career must be in front of you constantly. You can no longer shed your aspirations at the change seasons. There are strengths you have that need constant use and development. Be sure you sign up to download my E-Book, "421 Modern Job Search Tips 2021!" You can find my career advice and work in media outlets such as Forbes, Inc., Fast Company, Harvard Business Review, Glassdoor, and many other outlets.

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5 Ways to Show Job Interview Mastery to Employers

5 Ways to Show Job Interview Mastery to Employers

More than ever, job seekers must be proficient at interviewing. In fact, it’s likely every networking opportunity is an essential job conversation. It may be the interaction to decide your next step, so you want to be interview ready.

 

The interview process is no longer a one and done meeting.  In Lavie Margolin’s latest book, Mastering the Job Interview Process, he states since employers have more applicants than ever. He says companies, “… are maximizing their time by scheduling more interviews online or by phone than they are in person.” It is an “an extra hoop” for job candidates go through, but it is common for professional positions to have a phone interview and a digital assessment before an in-person interview.

 

It doesn’t have to feel like the Spanish Inquisition. Although these are easier to brace yourself for, the process and mentality are outdated. You’ll be tested and often tried, so you’ll need to be prepared.

 

To impress hiring decision makers, doing and knowing enough to get by is what your competition is doing. You must be presentation ready at all times and in different ways.

 

You’re thinking, “All I want is a job!”

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You don’t have to say it. It shows. You know nothing about the interviewer, the company, or why you want the job. We can all tell. If you want the competitive edge, but want to know how and why to differentiate yourself, I got you! Here are five reasons and strategies to implement:

 

Employers want to see your enthusiasm.

Interviewers throw around words indicating they want someone who is “passionate” about the job. In other words, they want job candidates invested in the work. Sort of like dating where if you’re not affectionate, then your heart is questioned.

 

Solution: Margolin says, “…employers expect the job candidate will do research since the access to research has increased.” You’re not mastering the interview process if you don’t check the company’s website, look at press releases, or know the company’s brand.

 

Employers want to see you add value.

You got the interview because you will add value. Now you’re competing to show you add the most value. It’s another reason to research, but it’s also time to evaluate your natural strengths and skills and how they match that of the employers.

 

Solution: You must clarify your value in particular ways with stories and results. Keep a running list of your accomplishments, transferable skills, and how you add value. The more you add to the list and how it applies to each employer you prepare for, the clearer your explanations to employers.

Employers will test you during the job interview.

Some companies will test you through assessments, others will give you case scenarios for you to walk them through your solutions, and others will ask irreverent questions to see how you’ll respond.

 

Solution:

You must be agile in your thinking to be ready for anything.

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Margolin suggests taking notes is necessary in most cases to show your interest in what the employer has to tell and show you’re willing to learn.

 

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Employers won’t see fit without personality during your job interview.

The interviewer will likely use their “gut instinct” rather than metrics to discern if you’re a cultural fit for the organization. If he or she does not feel they know the candidate better, the interviewer will choose someone who is more personable and relatable.

 

Solution: Showing personality is tough for job candidates but as Margolin says the strategy is to “Turn questioning into a conversation. Ask questions during the interviews, not at the end.” I have stated in the past,

companies can’t train personality so show your uniqueness

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Employers want to know that you want the job.

You’re expected to sell yourself somewhat aggressively to show you have the passion for the job and the company. Most people usually undersell themselves even if they promise hard work, diligence, and timeliness.

 

Solution: Margolin uses the analogy of an advertising company using a billboard approach and how in-your-face creativity doesn’t promote you better. Margolin is right in suggesting over-the-top is not effective (although some have had success). Sprint’s subtle approach in saying there’s only a 1% difference between services, but their price is a profound value proposition. It’s your job to make it your own.

 

Margolin also suggests the job candidate is responsible for moving the process forward by asking follow-up questions and sending thank-you notes. Most people think when they leave the last interview is the last contact necessary. Create several points of contact, timeline, and clear expectations of what is next for yourself and the employer. Without clarity, you set yourself up to be ignored or insignificant. Neither is good as you will need to ensure a good impression is all an employer experiences with you.

This article was originally published on the Jobs2Careers blog.

About Mark Anthony Dyson

I am the "The Voice of Job Seekers!" I offer compassionate career and job search advice as I hack and re-imagine the job search process. You need to be "the prescription to an employer's job description." You must be solution-oriented and work in positions in companies where you are the remedy. Your job search must be a lifestyle, and your career must be in front of you constantly. You can no longer shed your aspirations at the change seasons. There are strengths you have that need constant use and development. Be sure you sign up to download my E-Book, "421 Modern Job Search Tips 2021!" You can find my career advice and work in media outlets such as Forbes, Inc., Fast Company, Harvard Business Review, Glassdoor, and many other outlets.

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I moderated a panel on Wealth Management for executives by Black Enterprise Magazine in October 2023 in Miami.

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I talked with John Tarnoff and Kerry Hannon of “The Second Act” podcast about job searching after 50 in October 2022.

I was on “The Career Confidante” podcast to talk about “boomerang employees” and “job fishing” in June 2022.

Making Job Search a Lifestyle With “Dr. Dawn Graham on Careers,” SiriusXM Ch. 132, Wharton School of Business May 2021

In October 2025, I was interviewed by Nafo Savo, of Marketplace Tech, National Public Radio show

Beverly Jones, host of the NPR podcast “Jazzed About Work,” invited me back to talk job scams, job search trends, and AI tools in April 2024

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